Sex without a blowjob is just like a steak dinner without wine. It’s still great, but it can be twice as good with a little extra. If you want to elevate the pleasure in your sex act, you should know these several tips that will improve your blowjob game.
This guide is mainly for the ladies, and it is meant to shine some light on what men expect when they want to be blown. But men can read this guide too and better know what to ask their partners.
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Deepthroat And Sloppy Toppy
One thing a woman should know about a man is that he doesn’t want to be taken slowly. He doesn’t care about the kisses going slowly down his chest onto his crotch and the teasing of his dick.
All a man wants is to have his dick in your mouth as soon as possible and as deep as possible. Just put it in your mouth and push it down your throat. It’s ok to gag, and it is preferable to leave your drool all over it. The sloppier you are sucking cock and the louder your gagging gets, the more he’ll love it.
Messy Facials And Mouthpies
If you do the things from the previous paragraph to your boyfriend or husband, he will want to cum so fast. And when he wants to cum, you should just let him cum wherever he wishes. That’s the difference between a male orgasm and just cumming.
Some women stop sucking and they make their partners ejaculate on the floor or on napkins. That’s horrible for the climax. Just let your partner cum in your mouth or on your face.
You don’t have to swallow if you don’t like the taste. But for the five seconds of his orgasm, just pretend that it is the hottest thing that could happen to you. As soon as he’s done cumming, he won’t care that you spit it or wipe it off. That split second in which he saw his cum in your mouth or on your face while you act slutty about it is enough for him to make a couple of mental pornpics that he’ll remember forever.
Moaning, Dirty Talking, and Storytelling
Not all blowjobs have to be deepthroat action to be dirty and hot for a man. You can employ all kinds of other techniques to make things more interesting. One of the hottest things for a man, which won’t cost you any effort, is a bit of moaning while you suck it.
If you want to take things to another level, include a bit of dirty talking. And if you feel inspired, you should try the storytelling blowjob. This is for the couples who are a bit more open-minded, and it involves sucking dick while telling your man how you’d like to be fucked, how you’d act in a threesome, or even a past dirty sex experience of yours.
Sucking While Orgasming
Some women get bored while they suck dick. Especially if the husband is a silent type, but it shouldn’t be like that. You can also have fun while blowing him off. All you need is to slip your fingers down your panties and pleasure yourself while pleasuring him.
Or you can use your favorite vibrator while you let him use your mouth. Cumming while you feel a hard dick in your mouth and a man moaning over you can be such an earth-shattering experience.
The Surprise Blowjob
If you want to be the blowjob queen of your man, there is one thing you should do that doesn’t involve any kink, fetish, or special technique. You can just suck it out of the blue. There’s likely no man who will say no to a surprise blowjob.
Blow him in the middle of a road trip. Get under his desk and suck him off while he’s working. Make him cum in your mouth before he falls asleep. There are so many moments when you can show him that you love him with a surprise BJ. And he will always love you for it!
