Amongst my many kinks, voyeurism is one of my favourites. Used to describe those who gett a sexual thrill from performing sex for a live audience or the kinksters who are watching, it’s one of the most enthralling sexual activities you can experience. Provided you’re not shy, that is.
But the problem many budding voyeurs experience is where to find paid or free private voyeur sex hotspots to indulge in their fetish. With this article, I aim to overcome that problem.
“Prostitution is illegal in many places, but porn is not. But what is porn if not sex for money, caught on camera? What the law actually prohibits then is having paid sex in private and not allowing anyone to watch.”
― Merlyn Gabriel Miller, Sex, Death, Drugs & Madness
With this guide, your voyeurism journey will be revolutionized. We’re going to delve into the best places to both perform and watch live sex by looking at stuff like:
- Discover the hooksup spots for a car sex voyeur to get their kinky thrills.
- The best spots to indulge in voyeur beach sex surrounded by like minded sexual beings.
- How to arrange your own private voyeur hookup with kinky singles, horny groups, and open-minded couples.
And a lot more! So keep reading to discover the very best places to indulge in paid and free private voyeur sex, wherever you are in the world!
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The voyeurism meaning put simply
For those of you unaware, let’s look at voyeurism meaning put simply. Also known as scopophilia, voyeurism is the sexual fetish of getting aroused by watching another person, couple, or group undress or indulge in sexual activity.
It’s important to differentiate between the two types of voyeurism. One is not legal, non-consensual, and a type of voyeurism I highly discourage. The second is the complete opposite and one this article aims to cover.
- Consensual voyeurism: This type of voyeurism is enjoyed with like-minded people with their full consent. It can exist in harmony within a healthy relationship and won’t prevent a person from developing a healthy sexual relationship. This is in stark contrast from its “evil twin” of non-consentual voyeurism.
- Non-consenual voyeurism: This type of vouyerism is more of a sexual disorder than a kink. It involves the watching of people undressing or having sex without their consent. Not cool and frankly abhorrent. It gives a bad name to responsible voyeurs and will end in tears for anybody who engages in it, as it should!
Voyeurism goes hand in hand with its partner: Exhibitionism. The latter is a sexual fetish when a person gets sexual satisfaction from displaying their nude body or having sex in front of a live audience. This article is designed for both consensual voyeurs and exhibitionists alike.
Arrange your own private voyeur hookups
Do you think you’re alone in your performing sex for a live audience kink? Trust me, you’re not. The voyeur community has countless members around the globe. This means that arranging your own private voyeur sex isn’t actually that difficult.
By using a dedicated adult dating site like Adult Friend Finder, it’s easy to get linked up with open-minded folk who are into voyeurism, BDSM, Hotwifing, and a massive range of other kinks and fetishes.
Whether it’s a horny couple who get off on a single person or a couple masturbating to them having live sex or an equally horny voyeur keen to watch a live sex show, it won’t take long to find what you’re looking for on such an adult dating sites. Your own private voyeur sex could be just a click away!
Watch real voyeur sex in the peep shows of Europe
From porn cinemas and debauched sex parties, Europe is a bastion of sleaze. Many institutions, despite the competition of modern porn, have managed to survive and thrive against all odds. The iconic peep show, which provides real voyeur sex for a small fee, is one in particular.
From Prague and Hungary to Barcelona and Amsterdam, many European cities are home to fully legal peep shows. After paying the very reasonable entry fee, you are given a booth where you will sit and enjoy your private voyeur show.
The shows vary wildly but often consists of a heterosexual couple engaging in a number of delicious sex acts in front of their live audience. I adore the concept of the peep show and, trust me, this experience is a dream come true for any budding voyeur sex enthusiast.
Are you a car sex voyeur? Dogging may be for you!
If the idea of either performing sex in front of a live audience from the comfort of your car or watching a couple have car sex as you watch, then Dogging will likely be for you! A made in Britain kink, it takes place in car parks and nature reserves around the UK.
Traditionally, men will gather at a Dogging site awaiting couples to arrive. When they do, the couple either perform live sex for everyone to observe or invite spectators to get very intimately involved.
Although it started in the UK, this form of voyeur car sex has been exported across Europe and to North America in recent years. To explore this free private voyeur sex opportunity, check out my handy guide to the British Dogging scene covering rules, etiquette, and everything else you need to know!
Voyeur beach sex hotspots
Sex on the beach is a truly incredible experience. From the feeling of the hot sun on bare skin to the sounds of the waves in sync to the pounding of a pussy or ass, not much can beat fucking in the sand. Except for voyeur beach sex, that is!
The good news is that voyeur beach sex is immensely popular amongst swingers and nudists around the world. The even better news is that there is a range of dedicated nudist beaches where voyeur sex is encouraged!
From the notorious nudist and swingers resort of Cap d’Agde in France to the sultry Hedonist adult complex in the Caribbean, there is an abundance of voyeur beach sex locations for performers and observers alike to indulge in their kink-free of judgement.
The best place for gay voyeurism sex
If you’re part of the gay community and have a voyeurism kink, then attending hookup spots attended by mostly straight voyeurs probably isn’t ideal. Luckily, I have the perfect place to enjoy gay voyeurism sex. It’s the iconic gay sauna!
Located in towns and cities all around the globe, gay saunas serve gay, bi, and curious men. They provide a space for their clients to relax, socialize, and play hard in their designated cruising sex areas.
Often fitted with everything from Gloryholes to BDSM equipment and private cabins with peepholes to gangbang areas, they offer ample opportunities for gay voyeur sex enthusiasts to indulge whether it’s performing or watching.
The best place for a female voyeur to indulge
Voyeurs come in all shapes and sizes. Women being one of them. When it comes to single women who wish to indulge in their kink, places like Dogging sites and porn theatres can be intimidating. In my opinion, a swingers club is the ideal spot for a female voyeur.
Frequented by single men, single women, and couples, they’re safe and a great place to meet like-minded people. Often fitted with public sex and private sex facilities, they’re ideal for a female voyeur to watch or perform in the safety.
In the company of an open-minded swinger community, you will face no judgement here. In fact, your kinks will be encouraged. You might even discover a few more kinks to explore along the way!
The hidden voyeur hotspot you probably never knew about
Just like the peep shows of the world, next up is another hidden voyeur hotspot that you might be unaware of. The humble porn cinema is equally an age-old adult institution that has managed to stay alive in the face of modern smut.
As well as being a place to enjoy pornos in the company of like-minded people, it’s also a phenomenal place to indulge in some voyeur sex. It’s not uncommon to find open-minded couples in adult theatres putting on a sex show for the audience or asking them to get involved.
Whilst you might be in disbelief that porn cinemas still exist, they very much do. In fact, it’s more than likely that there’s one within driving distance of you. I recently wrote an article on various ways to find a porn cinema near you, to help you along.
Real life voyeur cam galleries
And last but not least, is the perfect option for those who wish to indulge in their voyeuristic kink from the privacy of their own home. There’s a range of real-life voyeur cam galleries that feature real amateur couples performing seriously kinky sex for live audiences.
The best thing is that many of these real-life voyeur cam galleries have a free basic trial to try but with a range of mouth-watering features available to paid members. From voyeur mature cams to voyeur anal, here are my top 3 favourite sites for voyeurism XXX:
- Royal Cams, where kings are made!
- Chaturbate – The home of voyeuristic masturbation action
- Cam Soda – The leaders in virtual reality hidden voyeur cams!
The future is now, my dear readers. Live, real-life voyeur cam galleries are just a click away to be enjoyed at your own convenience. What’s more is that your favourite models are often open to doing specific kinky acts during their amateur sex for live audiences, in exchange for a small fee.
Watch others have sex the right way
In summary, an up and coming voyeur is not alone in their sexual journey. There are countless folks around the world seeking the same satisfaction to their kink of performing sex in front of a live audience. But never let lust get in the way of common sense, and do voyeurism the right way.
Sadly, the voyeurism kink is often mislabeled and demonised. Why? Because people associate it with the rightly outlawed activity of non-consensual voyeurism. This consists of watching people have sex or performing public sex without permission.
Consensual voyeurism, which this article celebrates, is completely different. Kinksters indulging in this kink will find consenting, open-minded people with similar kinks to enjoy their fetish with and will be sexually rewarded as a result.
My personal advice for new voyeurs would be to start online using real-life voyeur cam galleries. Then, try to meet up with like-minded sexual beings on adult dating sites to try out your kink for real. If you get a taste for it, take it to the next level and visit a swinging club or a dogging site.
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