If lockdown has left us lusting after two things, it’s sex and travel. For the past few years, I’ve been lucky enough to have a job that requires constant travel, often to some of the most underrated sex tourism destinations in the world.
There is truly nothing better than undertaking some excellent travel. From seeing mind-blowing sights and absorbing new cultures to sampling exquisite food and relaxing on stunning beaches. Raunchy, uninhibited sex abroad can be the cherry on the cake of a vacation.
“I want to laugh often, feel love, have a lot of insanely dirty sex and travel the world. With you.”
– – Kinky Quotes
When regaling my sex stories from various destinations, I’m often shocked to be contacted by locals who live in the countries in question who are blissfully unaware of the raunchy side of their own homeland. Naturally, most foreigners are the same.
In this article, I want to break down ten of the best sex tourism destinations that I’ve personally visited. Bear in mind that I’m not talking about sex tourism centred around prostitution here, quite the opposite.
I’m basing the countries on this list on their level of sexual open-mindedness, number of sex clubs and sleazy establishments, and ability to combine a sex vacation with non-sexual tourism.
Like my various other international sex travel guides, this is a guide that has something for everyone whether you’re single or a couple. Or whether you’re straight, gay, or bi. Now, let’s dive in!
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The best place for a sex holiday in the UK
I’m from Northern Ireland, so it’s only fitting I start off with the UK as the first of our sex tourism destinations. Fear not my American and European readers, there is an abundance of sex vacation destinations further in! My British sex holiday destination of choice is Blackpool.
A Northern seaside town that was once an insanely popular holiday destination prior to affordable air travel, Blackpool is unfortunately not as booming as it once was. It is, however, one of my favourite sex tourism destinations in the UK for the following reasons.
- There is an active swinging scene in this town. In fact, there are four different swingers clubs and hotels in Blackpool. All of which offer different scenes and clientele for different tastes.
- It’s a very gay and trans friendly town. There are countless gay bars and LGBTQ+ hotels as well as two gay saunas and one bi sauna/swingers club.
- Hotels are very affordable and the locals are largely warm, friendly northerners. There’s also a fair few tourist attractions to fill the time between sexual fun. It’s best visited in summer though.
Due to losing a lot of its former glory, Blackpool sometimes has a poor reputation in the UK. But honestly, consider this as one of your next sex tourism destinations and I guarantee you won’t regret it!
Sex vacation destinations in the U.S.
You didn’t think I’d forget my lovely readers from the U.S.A, did you? I’ve been fortunate enough to visit the United States a couple of times. Although I can’t say it compares to the sordid behaviour of the Europeans, there are a fair few sex tourism destinations and there is still a lot of fun to be had here.
One of my favourite sex vacation destinations in the U.S. is the Rooftop Resort in Hollywood, Florida. I spent five days here and had an absolute ball. It’s situated on a river and boasts a rooftop pool lounge. Plus it’s only a short walk to Hollywood beach. But that’s not all.
- The rooftop resort has a number of varying rooms available for relatively affordable prices. The more luxury options have built in kitchens, sex swings, and more.
- Wide windows which are great for exhibitionists. I particularly enjoyed keeping the curtains open and putting on a show in my room for other swingers walking past.
- If you don’t want to stay, they also have day and night passes available at a reduced price. It’s very welcoming to couples and singles alike.
I’d often relax on the beach in the morning and return to the Rooftop Resort to relax in the lounge and indulge in horny fun late into the evening. The rooms are awesome although a little worn down in places, there’s a free continental breakfast, and on the weekends there are often BBQ parties.
Where’s the best place for a BDSM Vacation?
For many of my readers, I know that the ideal indulgence of sex tourism would involve some fantastic sightseeing n the day and some hardcore raunchy kink in the evening. For those seeking an ideal BDSM vacation, I recommend the Kinky Suite in Amsterdam’s Red Light District.
I was lucky enough to stay here myself a while back. This is truly a dream come true for BDSM kinksters. It’s set across three floors. The first is a spacy lounge with a private kitchen. The second is a raunchy BDSM bedroom fitted with a jacuzzi and shower. The third is surrounded by mirrors and has a great sex swing fitted.
The floors are all heated, there are multiple flat-screen TVs that are perfect for porn, and adjustable lights to set the perfect BDSM atmosphere. Of course, the Kinky Suite also comes complete with a wide range of bondage, BDSM, and fetish accessories for your enjoyment.
The price is not cheap, but this is a luxury suite in the heart of Amsterdam so you certainly get what you pay for. Being dominated on the top floor whilst looking down over a mass of whore houses illuminated in red neon on the streets below was one of my all-time favourite BDSM vacation memories.
Best sex vacation spots in Central Europe
Moving further East, we come to one of the best sex vacation spots in Central Europe. This is one that you can combine an incredible array of sex with an equally awe-inspiring array of tourist attractions, great beer, and amazing culture. It’s the Czech capital of Prague!
One of the oldest cities in Europe, it’s also one of the most sexually liberated. Home to one of the biggest porn scenes in Europe, Prague and the Czech Republic sure do know a thing or two about smut whether it’s on-screen or in real life.
The Gothic capital city of Prague is home to an array of porn cinemas, peep shows, and swingers parties, and sex clubs. It has a great mixture of charm and sleaze and is one of the best sex vacation choices you’ll make. You can also combine it with another nearby sex capital that’s just a short train ride away. Speaking of which…
Best Gay sex tourism destinations in Europe
You didn’t think I’d write a list of the best sex vacation spots without covering gay sex tourism for my LGBTQ+ readers, did you? I consulted with a few friends in the gay scene for their choice of the best destination and the winner was overwhelmingly the incredible city of Berlin.
If you’re a regular reader, you’ll know that Berlin is one of my all-time favourite cities and one that I’ve done a fair few sordid things inside. But for LGBTQ+ travellers, it’s also one of the most vibrant, welcoming, and sexually open cities in Europe, if not the world!
In addition to infamous sexually mixed institutions like the Kit Kat Club and the Berghain, Berlin is home to a huge range of gay sex tourism establishments. Firstly, is a mass of sleazy porn cinemas that welcome straight, gay, and bi men and women to indulge in sordid behaviour in dark corridors.
Secondly, Berlin is home to some of the best gay saunas in the world such as Der Boiler. The gay saunas in Berlin have a serious reputation for being well run and uninhibited. As it’s such an international city, they’re ideal for sampling cock from around the world and meeting new people.
In addition, Berlin is just a phenomenal city for visiting. There is an abundance of sights, attractions, and gay bars to spend time when not sampling the sleazy side of the city. All of which make it the best gay sex tourism destination in Europe!
Nudist sex vacation destinations in France
France is a country with a long-running tolerance towards all things sex. After all, Paris is called “the city of love” for good reason. But one of the best sex vacation destinations is located south of the French city of Montpellier. It’s the Cap d’Agde swingers and nudist resort.
Boasting over 20km of stunning beaches, Cap d’Agde is the ideal sex vacation destination for a relaxing break at the sea. Leave the kids and your clothes at home, though. This resort caters to open-minded nudists and swingers. The sandy beaches are severely lacking in any forms of clothing but this is made up for by an array of uninhibited sex.
“The swingers keep the place going. They’ve got energy, and they bring in the curious.”
– A Guardian article on Cap d’Agde
In the summer, this nudist and swingers paradise swells to over 40,000 adults with little sexual limits or taboos. In the dunes around the beach, all manner of sordid activity takes place in the summer heat. In the evening, numerous swingers clubs offer the perfect place to retire at one of Europe’s best sex tourism destinations.
The best country for sex in Eastern Europe
When it comes to the best country for sex in Eastern Europe, Hungary definitely ranks alongside the Czech Republic. Despite the country often being in the news for the rise of the far-right, the country on the ground is actually very open-minded. Particularly, the capital city of Budapest.
The Hungarian capital is home to three different swingers clubs. All of them are extremely well done out and worth a visit. The language barrier can sometimes be an issue, especially with older Hungarians, but often there’s no language needed to understand what they want.
As well as sex clubs, Budapest is also dotted with old school peep shows and numerous sleazy sex stores with porn cinemas attached, as in Germany. They’re suitable for men, women, couples, and trans. Many of these porn kinos are fitted with Gloryholes, many of which I’ve sampled personally.
Overall, Hungary has a very lax attitude towards sex as can be seen through its legalization of prostitution and its booming porn scene. Making it one of the best sex tourism destinations and is often referred to as one of the easiest cities to get laid in Europe.
Best places for sex tourism in Southern Europe
Germany, Amsterdam, and Prague are all fantastic places, but who doesn’t love a nice bit of sun? In my opinion, one of the best places for sex tourism in Southern Europe is the city of Barcelona in the Spanish region of Catalonia.
Barcelona is one of Europe’s most visited cities on account of its incredible food, culture, and attractions. It also boasts a seedy side that I’m sure any kinkster will fall in love with. The streets are also full of seriously hot locals that will turn your cock or pussy into the purple buddha of Antioch just by looking at them.
Firstly, there are three awesome swingers clubs in Barcelona. These are frequented by kinky tourists as well as passionate locals who are keen to display the Spanish sex drive to the world. But that’s not all this sex tourism destination has to offer.
Barcelona is also home to a number of old school sex cinemas, peep shows, and sex clubs. It also hosts regular fetish conventions. There is an open attitude towards sex and prostitution here. But stay alert, as a major tourist destination Barcelona can be a dangerous city. Especially on Las Ramblas after dark.
Sex trips on a swinger cruise
Cruises have a mixed reputation. Many folks assume they’re the reserve of older folks who want an easy vacation packed with a few organized day trips. This is far from the truth. I’ve been on a few cruises and had an absolute ball. But one of my best sex trips took place on a swingers cruise.
These are repurposed cruise ships specifically for the swinging community. The conference rooms are turned into dungeons, there are orgy beds near the pool and sex-themed entertainment in the evening. They’re truly phenomenal.
Can you think of anything better than cruising through the Mediterranean or the Caribbean whilst indulging in eroticism with fellow naughty nomads from around the world? To find out more about these incredible sex trips, check out Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Swingers Cruises by Thrillist.
So, which is the best sexual tourism country?
Now the moment you’ve all been waiting for, which is the best country for sexual tourism? Although its capital city has already been mentioned in this list for our LGBTQ+ readers, the country itself also takes first place. It’s dear old Germany.
For me, there’s nowhere that compares to Germany when it comes to sex tourism. Whatever your kink, there is guaranteed to be something for you in this city. It has some of the most renowned swingers clubs in the world, a healthy slice of old school sleaze, and an incredible degree of sexual open-mindedness.
This is a country that has an active social media network solely for organizing gangbangs, one of the most established porn scenes in Europe, and some downright phenomenal sex clubs that are very welcoming to foreigners whether its singles or couples.
Want a fully organized sex tour?
I hope this list has inspired you to choose your next sex tourism destinations. Not sure where to start? I’ve compiled my near-decade long experience of sex vacation destinations to begin organizing personally-guided or remotely guided sex tours.
Whatever your sexual orientation or status, I can arrange fully organized sex tours that will allow you to get the most pleasure and enjoyment out of some of the best sex tourism destinations in the world. To inquire about a sex tour, check out my adult consulting page and feel free to get in touch.
