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There are many ways to spice things up in the bedroom. However, one of the kinkiest options is to use an anal hook.
This is a common element in the world of BDSM and can bring you new levels of pleasure when used effectively.
Here are some tips you should keep in mind when you are getting started.
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How Does an Anal Hook Work?
The first area to address is what an anal hook is and how it operates. In most cases, it will be metal. One end will be hooked and will have a ball. This is the part that gets inserted into the submissive partner.
On the other end of the hook is a small loop. This can be attached to a finger or rope. This allows the hook to be manoeuvred inside the submissive partner.
Apply a Generous Amount of Lube
If you think that you might enjoy trying an anal hook, or any other type of anal toy, it’s important to make sure that you use a lot of lubricant. This will stop anal ruptures, and allow the toys to slide into place more easily.
Before you do any anal play, it’s best to douche yourself. If you don’t know how to do this, you can read this article.
When you are applying lube, there are a few things that you need to consider. First, it’s best to avoid water-based lube. While they don’t have as many chemicals, this type of lube doesn’t last as long.
You don’t want it to dry out while the anal hook is inside you. Instead, opt for silicone or oil lube.
Another quick tip is to use a lube launcher to apply lubricant inside your body, as well as applying lube to the hook. If you do this, it should slide in without any pain.
Inserting the Hook
Once you have prepared with lube, it’s time to insert the hook. Before you do this, make sure that you are relaxed. If you aren’t, you will be clinching. This will make it inserting the hook more challenging and painful.
Next, the submissive will need to lie on their back and spread their cheeks. The dominant will then need to insert the hook.
If this is your first time, go slowly. It can take a little getting used to. If you aren’t used to anal play, it’s best to get a small bulb. Over time, this can be increased.
Pay Attention to Pain
Anal sex might be a little uncomfortable at first. But anal hooks aren’t going to fill you up. If you want this type of sensation, there are other toys that you can turn to.
When you are using an anal hook, you might feel a pinch, designed to hold you in place. If you do experience any pain, remove the hook.
If it persists, it might be a good idea to see a doctor. Though it’s rare, it is possible to rupture an anal fissure. This is why it’s important to use lubricant first.
Caring for an Anal Hook
You must be taking care of your anal hook. This will ensure that it will last for a long time. One of the most important things to do is keep the hook clean. The last thing you want is to get an infection.
It’s best to clean the toy after each experience. You’ll usually just need to use some warm water and some soap to clean the toy properly. Dry them with a towel before you put them away. This will ensure that they don’t start to grow mould.
Once it’s clean, it’s best to put it into a case for storage. Then, you will be able to put it into a drawer.
The good news is that most anal hooks are made of metal, which means that are relatively easy to take care of. If you have more questions about how you should take care of your toys, check out this guide.
Ways to Play With an Anal Hook
Now that we have covered the basics of caring and using an anal hook, we can get to the fun part. How to use it. In most cases, it will be part of kinkier sex.
There are a few reasons why people enjoy incorporating an anal hook into their BDSM play. The most common is the ability to lock the submissive person into position. There is little ability to move. This forces the submissive to relinquish control to the more dominant partner.
There are a few examples of how you can do this. Some people like to attach the anal hook to their hair, locking themselves into the position.
Another option is to use the anal hook in conjunction with rope restraints. Some people even like to wear it under their clothes, walking with the hook in public. Get creative and find new ways to create pleasure.
Because the hook is made from metal, there are more play options available. For example, you might want to heat it or cool it down. You can also try holding a vibrator against it, to help stimulate the prostate. Or you can pop the toy into your vagina.
Another good option is to use other toys in combination with the hook. This can bring a new level of pleasure.
For example, you might want to use anal beads. Or you can use an anal vibrator to stimulate the prostate. This can allow both partners to enjoy the sensation of anal sex together. If you want to know what type of options are available, check out this list of anal toys.
It’s always a good idea to experiment in the bedroom. Expanding to BDSM play can bring a lot of pleasure for both partners.
In this area, anal hooks can be a great toy to use, locking a submissive partner into place. So, try one of these toys to spice up your relationship and unlock your kinkier side.