As I slowly dragged the strapon from his ass, I smirked as it prolapsed and fell out like a windsock, almost like a perverted flourish to the pegging artistry I’d just unleashed.
‘’Is… Is it over, Mistress?’’ He squealed, rattling from the sheer force of the pegging sex he’d just undergone, ‘’Did I earn my pegging stripes?’’
I answered him without saying a word, choosing to stuff the lube and spit-soaked pegging dildo down his throat to tell him that he was far from done if he wanted to earn my respect.
”Call me mother, and beg for this fuck stick to be driven deeper into your bowels, you dirty little anal whore!”
Anybody who has withstood one of my infamous pegging sessions and managed not to scream their safeword has my genuine respect because I take no prisoners when I’m in the zone.
But I wasn’t always like this. There was a time when I was a clueless dumb whore who was pretty useless when let loose on the wipe-down mats of a fetish dungeon for the first time.
Through trial and error and the leather-clad guidance of veteran Dominatrixes, I honed my pegging skills to an elite-tier level. Now? I plan to share them all with you.
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How to Prepare for Pegging
As with all sexual adventures, poor preparation can lead to a pretty shitty experience. Luckily, I’m here to tell you all of the key foundations a pegging sex session always needs.
- Find a safe, relaxed, comfortable space where you know you won’t be disturbed.
- Ample douching of the sub’s fuck hole beforehand to avoid any mess.
- Setting a safeword to ensure things don’t go too far and stay within limits.
- Have water to hand to keep you and your sub hydrated; don’t be afraid to take breaks.
- Put a thick towel down to catch any stray lube or accidental hands-free orgasms.
It’s all easy enough to do, but stuff like this is crucial for preparing for pegging sex and ensures that it’ll be an experience neither of you will want to forget anytime soon.
Get a Suitable Sex Toy and Combine it With the Best Lube For Pegging
Now, with the foundations laid, it’s time to arm yourself with the tools of the pegging trade! At this stage, you should ensure you’re not getting too far ahead of yourself.
It’s easy to be guided by your porn-fuelled brain and go straight for an extreme dildo like the kind offered by Mr. Hankey, but you should also know the experience level of you and your sub.
Don’t try to dive in at the deep end; use a toy that’s comfortable for both of you. Trying to stuff one in an inexperienced hole will likely end a pegging sex party before it’s even begun.
Also, the right lube for pegging is just as important as the toy you use. Do your research and don’t buy some cheap stuff from over the counter, as it will ruin the experience.
One mistake I see people making when they peg for the first time is using cheap lube that gets sticky within a few minutes, making the whole thing unpleasant for both parties.
After all, the average pegging sex session can go on for a while, so you need a lube that will hold its own and be able to withstand the sexual carnage taking place.
Unleash Some Ball Taps With the Pegging Dildo Before, During, and After
One of the most underrated tricks a pegging mistress can deploy is the humble ball tap before, during, and after a strap-on sex session.
It’s as simple as it sounds and sees you slap the sub’s ballsack with your pegging dildo to mark your territory before sliding in, remind the sub who is boss during, and round off with a flourish.
Many of my subs have attested that feeling their limp balls get slapped by a lube-soaked strap-on is one of the most humiliating cherries on a pegging cake, and it’s not to be overlooked.
Hone Your Pegging Dirty Talk
There’s no bigger turn-off than a silent BDSM session, and one of the best ways to spice strap-on sex up is through some sordid pegging dirty talk.
From strapon porn movies to pegging erotica, if you’re looking for ideas, there are endless places to look for pegging dirty talk inspiration. Still, here are some of my favorites!
- You call yourself a man, yet you don’t even have control of the cheap cunt between your asscheeks!
- Call me mother, and beg for this fuck stick to be driven deeper into your bowels, you dirty little anal whore!
- Your moans and screams are like music. You sound like a street whore eager to make men cum as fast as possible, except you’re striving to get this cock out of your ass!
- Picture the woman you hate most in the world, someone you truly despise, and imagine she’s standing behind you in my place and gaping your fuck hole out!
The world is your oyster here, but your pegging dirty talk should tap into your sub’s vibe as much as it does yours. Pulling this up will really up the ante of a strapon session; trust me!
Keep Your Pegged Submissive on Their Toes With These Naughty Little Tricks
Don’t just thrust in and out for hours because your sub will only end up getting accustomed to the pegging and stop working towards being a true piece of fuck meat for you to enjoy.
It’s important to keep your pegging subs on their toes and guessing about what’s to come next. To do so, I always deploy these filthy little tricks, and they never fail to deliver!
- As you’re pegging a sub in doggy style, lift one leg and clamp the sole of your foot down onto their face to look them in place via one of the most humiliating positions imaginable.
- While fucking them from the back, grab their hair and yank their head back to fuck them with full momentum and treat them like the cheapest whore in a hardcore porno.
- Slap a suction cup dildo to the wall and make your sub deepthroat it while you hammer them in a simulated spitroast, using your foot on their head to ensure they don’t slack off.
- Keep your sub hydrated with occasional breaks, opening their mouth and inserting a liquid of your choice, whether it’s their own pre-cum, your piss, or a wad of spit.
Stuff like this is vital to ensure your sub is kept guessing about what will come next and will ensure their hole is left perpetually hungry for more pegging sex!
And if you’re still hungry for more ideas to spice up your strap-on sex parties, then check out the myriad of true pegging stories online for inspiration. Here, I show you where to find them!
Decide on Which Pegging Orgasm You Want to Unleash
Now, your sub is moaning like a stuck pig, and a flash of mercy has come across you. You feel it’s time to give them the orgasm they deserve, but how? Here are some of my favorites:
- Hand your sub a vibrating clitoral wand and make them clamp it on the end of their cock while you hammer their ass until they squirt like a girl. It’s so fuckin’ humiliating!
- For those who have the power of a true pegging whore, lock your sub in chastity and fuck his prostate so damn hard that he’s forced to squirt out of it like a sissy slut.
- If you’re pegging a female sub, stretch out her ass but leave a Bluetooth Lovense vibrator in her cunny, and it’ll result in some tremendously wet orgasms throughout!
- Or, better yet, don’t even let them cum at all. Keep those little balls blue and teach them that a submissive’s closest route to pleasure is through their bowels.
Of course, there’s always the classic route of fucking your sub in missionary, drowning their fuck meat in lube, and making them spurt all over their stomach before they lick it all up.
Strap-On Sex Isn’t Reserved for Just the Bedroom
While the foundations of pegging sex should be laid in a place that’s comfortable for both of you, don’t be afraid to branch out and get creative when you’re both comfortable enough.
One of my favorite places to peg a submissive is in a remote beauty spot in the great outdoors. Trust me; those lustful moans sound way better when they’re echoing through a tranquil forest!
Or, you can take your sub to a local fetish club and showcase how hard you can fuck a man in the ass while like-minded people look on, adding a little extra humiliation for the bitch below you.
A Pegging Slut Always Keeps Her Tools Clean
Now that your sub is lying there with an ass like a windsock and in a puddle of their own love juices, it’s time for them to truly earn their place in the ranks of strap-on sluts.
That toy you’ve just used to ruin their asshole/cunt and turn it into a windsock? It’s no doubt clad in sordid war paint of lube and sexual juices and looking nothing short of debauched.
If you plan to wash that pegging toy off in the sink, think again. The only way for a proper pegging Mistress to clean it is via an ass-to-mouth session that sees it stuffed in their throat.
Watching the pleading eyes of a sub stare back at me as they suck the taste of their bowels off my toy can make me cum hands-free anytime, and it’s the perfect flourish to a pegging session.
Pegging Sex, When Done Right, Can Be a Life-Changing XXX Experience
From choosing the best lube for pegging to honing your dirty talk that oozes down a sub’s ear, starting your pegging sex journey might seem daunting at first, and it’s only natural.
But I hope this guide to pegging sex has opened your eyes to how easy it can be to start your strap-on sex adventure properly with just a few simple steps.
Remember, pegging is a learning experience and one that is full of sexual surprises and lustful rewards along the way.
The changing power dynamic in the bedroom isn’t to be underestimated, and it can truly ramp up a relationship when done right.
Now, spread those cheeks and get pegging, my darlings! After all, you have some points to earn in my infamous BDSM test for dominant women, don’t you?
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