Few things that make my slit tingle more than delving into a box of pegging toys and taking a Gooner’s anal virginity as he screams my name like a whore.
I’ve been pegging subs for years and have learned everything there is to know. In turn, I’ve become the go-to oracle for those seeking how to get started with strap-on sex.
In the mainstream world, pegging is an experience that has a lot of stigma surrounding it. Amongst brainwashed straight men, it’s often connected to being gay, although things are changing.
Just because you like to get your ass pounded while getting your P-spot stimulated doesn’t make you gay, and living in 2024 should be enough to remove the unnecessary stigma.
”Some Dommes might not want to hear your slutty anal as you’re getting your ass drilled by a pegging toy. This is where a BDSM mouth gag comes in handy because it can work wonders in keeping a sub quiet while also adding to the vibe of being a worthless submissive who isn’t allowed to speak.”
Sadly, while things are getting better in that sense, the world is not as forward as we would like it to be, which makes the search for pegging toys and accessories more awkward.
If you’re bored with the standard male orgasm and you want to experience a new sensation, pegging might be a great option as long as your partner is on board with it.
You won’t only discover the magic of P-spot orgasms if you haven’t already, but you will also bring some excitement and diversity into your ordinary sex life and teach you to respect female domination.
However, you may find yourself in a situation where you’re very confused about where to start. It’s not exactly the kind of question to ask at dinner parties, is it?
So, if you’re open to being pegged and would like to learn more about what pegging toys and accessories you should add to your collection, keep reading this article to be enlightened!
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Get Yourself Some Reliable Anal Lube
First things first, don’t be stingy when it comes to purchasing a reliable and quality lube. Pegging, and all anal play, for that matter, can quickly become a horrible experience if you don’t apply enough lube.
Lube your fuck hole and strap-on up, and keep reapplying it as you go. Since the body doesn’t lubricate itself in that area, you must do all the work.
It will not only help you dodge some serious injuries but also make the whole experience much more pleasurable and help you achieve a prostate orgasm faster.
There’re so many anal lubes on the market to choose from. They usually have a slightly different consistency from the usual vagina ones, so it’s worth the money you spend.
If you’re feeling brave, you can also get lubes with a cooling or heating effect, although they’re not everyone’s cup of tea. Just experiment and find one that makes your cock tingle.
Use an Anal Plug to Warm-up Before Getting Pegged
The next thing you should invest in before you move on to getting your ass pegged by your partner is a good anal plug to stretch your fuck hole out and get it ready for the big pegging event.
Luckily, or unluckily if you have an indecisive nature, there’s a vibrant choice on the market in regards to anal plugs—vibrating or non-vibrating, short or long, silicone or steel.
Whatever it is that turns you on, you’re definitely going to find it. A tip from me, if you’re a true beginner to anal play, is to start with a flexible silicone one that’s on the short side.
With anal play, practice is key. Look at it like going to the gym, you can’t start bench pressing 100 kilos so why do you think you can stuff a 10-inch dildo up your ass without training?
Once you up your game and feel more comfortable, you can also proceed with vibrating dildos, or if you’re really up for a challenge, you can get yourself a steel anal plug.
Choose the Right Size Strap-On
I’m not going to lie: Strap-ons can be pretty tricky and awkward to maneuver. Sometimes, they don’t fit, and other times, you need to be a rocket scientist to figure them out.
So, to get the perfect one that fits can be a bit of a headbanging experience. That’s why you should look for an adjustable one that also has a range of good reviews about the fit.
A shitty strap-on can really ruin the vibe if your girl takes ages to put it on or it keeps on slipping off during the heat of the moment. It’s a one-way ticket to destroying the sexual mood you’ve strived to build up.
If you’re not too keen on strap-ons, there are also special pegging dildos made to do the job without the need for a strap-on. However, for them, you girl should train her pelvic floor muscles.
A Fetish Gag to Keep Yourself Quiet
Some Dommes might not want to hear your slutty anal as you’re getting your ass drilled by a black pegging toy, and I’m sure your prudish neighbors would agree!
This is where a BDSM mouth gag comes in handy because it can work wonders in keeping a sub quiet while also adding to the vibe of being a worthless submissive who isn’t allowed to speak.
Many of us adore watching porn sluts getting their mouths gagged as they’re taking a hard cock up their ass so if you want to see how that feels like, purchasing a mouth gag is a must.
If you and your partner are into BDSM, a mouth gag will definitely serve your BDSM pegging sessions well. You can take my word on that.
Chastity Cage to Keep Your Hands off Your Dick
Another great accessory that has gained popularity in recent years is a male chastity cage, and I’ve covered them in detail here.
Maybe you’ve heard about them, maybe you haven’t, but it sure does fit the pegging scenario and is a must-have toy for any strap-on sex session.
Often used by sissies who like to be treated like dirty sluts while taking big cocks up their asses, it’s an accessory that can help you keep your attention on your ass.
If you want to get pegged and cum through your slutty ass, then what’s the point of satisfying your dick? You have to choose one, and if you’re reading this article, we all know which one you’re choosing.
A chastity cage can also be really beneficial for a couple’s play if you’re into edging. You can put it on and wear it for days on end without touching your horny dick.
At the end of it, you will be begging your girlfriend to fuck you in the ass, and you’ll forget your sorry dick even existed. Trust me.
Collar, Cuffs, and a Lead to Maintain Control
If you want to get dominated by your girl, you need to let her take all the control. Seeing that the male is the stronger gender, usually, she might need a helping hand.
One way to do this is through the use of a collar, cuffs, and a lead. Aside from looking really hot and arousing, they also do the job of keeping you in line and allowing her to gain better momentum.
Just like the mouth gag, they make a perfect contribution to your BDSM fantasies and are the cherry on the cake for any strap-on sex session.
There’s nothing more submissive than putting on a collar, lead, and cuffs and leaving control to your girlfriend. You’re now officially her bitch, and there’s fuck all you can do about it.
Just like this Gooner who submitted to me and my strap-on-wielding Goonette friends, which you can read about here.
A Sex Pillow or Swing for Better Positions
Pegging can sometimes be an awkward one. Maybe the height of your bed is not right, or your girl is not aligning well with your asshole, or you’re struggling to find a position to hit your prostate just right.
Whatever it is, there are ways to make that experience more comfortable for both of you by minimizing the time looking for the right position and maximizing the time you’re fucking.
Investing in a sex pillow or a swing you can put in the middle of your room can work wonders. The good part is that they’re multifunctional, so you can use them in many ways.
Pegging or not, you can give life to all the Kama Sutra positions you looked at and wanted to try but didn’t have the physical ability to do so by using a reliable sex pillow in your strap-on sessions.
A G-Spot Vibrator for the Pegging Domme
Last but not least, it’s also important to pay attention to the pleasure of your pegging partner. Sadly her fake dick doesn’t do much for her physically, but stimulating her G-spot will.
Earlier, I mentioned double-ended dildos that don’t require a harness to attach them to the girl. One side is the pegging dildo, and on the other side, there’s a device that goes into the slit.
Once inserted into the pussy, the girl is holding the toy with her pelvic floor muscles and gets to orgasm as well, with the intensity growing the harder she pounds your ass.
These double-ended strap-on dildos are created for G-spot stimulation, and most double-sided pegging dildos have vibrating functions that contribute to getting intense orgasms on both sides.
Yes, it can be a little tricky until your girl manages to hold it up in her pussy without slipping, but just like anything, practice makes perfect, and working on developing your pelvic muscles will go a long way.
With the Right Pegging Toys, Strap-On Sex Can Be a Much More Pleasurable Experience Than You Ever Thought
When it comes to pegging, purchasing a strap-on dildo can be all you truly need, but that doesn’t mean you will take full advantage of the experience.
In reality, the accessories you use with it are what make your pleasure and orgasms so intense that you eventually become a slave to it and begin to need it more often in your life.
In this article, I covered some of the key pegging accessories that have proven to be useful, satisfactory, and fitting to the roleplay you intend on doing with your girl.
My advice is to make use of what the current sex toy market is offering to subsequently make your pegging sex life better.
Even if intimacy with your partner exists without strap-on toys and pegging accessories, they can only contribute to it and make it even more powerful.
However, if you try something and find it doesn’t do much for you sexually, you can drop it. There’s really nothing to lose.
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