I’ll be straight with you. When I first saw porn, becoming a sexual force like the girls in front of me instantly became my life’s ambition. Through trial, error, and study, I’m proud to say I’ve mastered giving the porn star experience to my lovers.
Yes, a lot of porn isn’t real. But that doesn’t mean you can’t make it real. Recently, I’ve been contacted by men, women, and transgender folk alike asking for advice on replicating on-screen smut in the bedroom and achieving the ultimate porn star experience.
“Many current and retired pornstars alike are active in the world of porn blogging and often really everything from personal experiences to tips and advice.”
I have good news for you all. It’s a lot easier than you might initially think. In this filthy guide to the porn star experience, I’m going to show you just how to achieve it and revolutionize your sex life through methods like:
- How watching sex talk porn can expand your dirty talk vocabulary and how it has a direct effect on the pleasure both of you experience in sex.
- Tried and tested pornstar experience skills that will send your lover wild!
So, keep reading if you seek to become your favourite porn slut and fuck like a pornstar. I promise by the end of this article, and following the advice provided, you’ll provide a sex experience that will make any lover addicted to you!
Table of Contents
What is a porn star experience?
The origins of the term ”porn star experience” or ”PSE” is said to come from sex workers. It was originally a service designed to replicate a client’s favourite porn scene or to include acts often associated with hardcore porn that are often absent from your average bedroom.
Of course, a PSE can be as varied as pornography itself. It can be anything from a sensual Nuru massage to a brutal BDSM mistress session. It’s completely customizable to one’s own tastes in porn.
Generally, though, it centres around classic hardcore smut. We’re talking loud moaning, hair-curling sex talk, exaggerated deepthroating with rivers of spit, ass fucking, female squirting, cumming on the face, and… well, I’m getting carried away. You get the idea.
In summary, it sums up the type of sex many people don’t experience in the bedroom. But it doesn’t have to be like this! I want you to bring porn off the screen and spice up your sex life!
For this guide, and to keep it straightforward, it’s the latter type of porn we’re going to focus on. But if your aim is centred around another porn niche, fear not, this guide applies to all. Now, let’s turn you into a pornstar!
Step 1: Find a pornstar you love
First off, you need to find a pornstar to emulate. There are thousands upon thousands of pornstars out there, all with their own specific skills and kinky aspects. But hey, you’re in the right place to trawl through them.
In our Multiporn section, we’ve covered everything from creampie cumsluts to the best Asian whore in porn. So you can certainly use it for inspiration to find a pornstar you love.
Whether you’re a guy or a girl, whatever it is that you like in your favourite pornstar, aim to emulate it. It can be anything from the delightfully slutty outfits pornstars like Sandra Romain wear or it can be the alpha, focused style of anal fucking delivered by Rocco Siffredi.
As long as your partner consents to it, emulating your favourite pornstars in the bedroom is the first step to taking your sex life to the next level. Imagine the divine look on your lovers face as you extract their cum with the dominant fucking style of Gianna Michaels or pound their pussy in the style of Johnny Sins?
Step 2: Study a pornstar blog
Whilst I can give you a lot of advice on the world of porn, there’s none better than hearing it from the slut’s mouth. Many current and retired pornstars alike are active in the world of porn blogging and often really everything from personal experiences to tips and advice.
A pornstar blog can genuinely be a fantastic way to gain some insider tips into providing the ultimate porn star experience. Because trust me, there’s a lot more that goes into it behind the scenes.
And when I talk about pornstar blogs, I don’t mean generic paid content. I’m talking about creative content that covers everything that goes into the creation of the porn aesthetic. Here are some of my favourite examples:
- Porn star interviews on Mike South
- Puma Swede’s pornstar blog
Whether it’s learning how to douche properly and give the most mind-blowing blowjob to applying pornstar makeup and picking the perfect slutty outfit, a pornstar blog can be an invaluable information source for those seeking knowledge on the PSE.
Step 3: Research sex talk porn
Dirty talk is a massively underrated aspect of healthy sex life. Do you know what’s an even more powerful sexual organ than a cock and pussy combined? The human brain, my dear readers.
The sex drive begins in the brain. Two areas of it in fact. The imagination area of the brain is responsible for your judgement of situations in front of you whereas the frontal cortex takes care of delivering you pleasure.
Dirty talk hits both of these areas at once by letting sexual lovers verbalize their perceptions and urges surrounding sex. Hence why porn feels so damn good when you see a busty whore begging for a train of cock to run into her holes.
You see, a silent porn star experience just doesn’t work. Silent movies are so 1935. If you want to deliver the ultimate pornstar experience in the bedroom, then you need to deliver the right level of dirty talk. With an abundance of resources on hand, it’s not hard to get started.
You can start by looking up examples of sex talk porn. As long as you think it won’t be too extreme for your partner, you can take notes and develop a new dirty vocabulary for the bedroom.
Top dirty talking tips for men: Focus on the woman’s body. Compliment her pussy, her tits, and lustfully explain how her eyes are driving you wild. Go for things like “I think I’m going to be addicted to this pussy forever” or unleash manly moans or grows to let her know the effect she is having on your body.
Top dirty talking tips for women: Feed a mans ego. Reinforce his masculinity by praising his cock and his lovemaking skills. Compliment his body and make him feel good in any way you see fit.
Step 4: Find that pornstar skill to drive your lover wild
We all have that pornstar who does such nasty stuff on screen that it keeps us coming back for more, right? Whether it’s Kelly Wells fishing spunk out of her ass to suck off her fingers or the spit covered tits of your favourite teen pornstar after a facial abuse that leaves them utterly overwhelmed.
Whatever your favourite on-screen pornstar skill, why not replicate it in the bedroom? There’s a range of pornstar experience skills you can use. To broaden your mind, here are my top five PSE skills for men and women.
- Hair pulling in doggy style: One of my favourite things about fucking in doggy is having my hair violently pulled back. Asking your male lover to pull your hair as he fucks you is bound to turn him on. If you’re a guy with a consenting partner, grab a fistful of hair, twist it, and pull for effect as your cock slams into her. It’ll give you some added leverage and extra fucking power, too.
- Last as long as a pornstar: Again, porn is largely an illusion. The staying power of these men on screen isn’t reality. But you should be aiming for around 8-15 minutes of staying power if you want to go for the PSE. However, it’s asier said than done. If you feel like you’re going to blow your load to early, take a break. Eat your girl’s pussy or ass, take a breather, or cuddle and kiss deeply for a break before returning to fucking.
- Unleash the vacuum seal double hand twist gawk gawk combo 3000: Relax, that’s just a name I love for the double handed pornstar blowjob. It’s a lot easier than it sounds! Focus your mouth on the head of a man’s cock, look up into his eyes and grip his shaft with two lubed up hands. Then, twist your hands in opposite directions as you suck him. Brace yourself, this can make a man cum very hard!
- Unleash the prostate massage: It’s 2021. Thankfully, more people eat ass now and an increasing number of men are less sexually repressed to deny a prostate massage. For an explosive end to a blowjob or handjob, slide a lubed up finger into a consenting man’s ass until you feel a small walnut-sized ball. Welcome to prostate town! Gently massage it as you suck him and wait for the sticky reward. This is a classic pornstar experience trick!
- Make her cum: The highlight of a porno for many is seeing a woman erupt in a crippling orgasm, sometimes with a river of vaginal squirt. Yes, a lot of it is staged, but it doesn’t have to be. To perfect the pornstar experience in the bedroom, the woman needs to cum. Girls, speak to your man and direct him if he’s lost. Guys, do your research and learn various techniques to bring a woman to orgasm. Most importantly, communicate with each other.
With these five pornstar experience skills, you’ll turn your sexual organs into an addictive commodity that will have any lovers who experience it downright hooked. But remember, communicate with each other, know your limits, and figure out what your likes and dislikes are, or they might end up having a negative effect.
Step 5: Dress like a pornstar
One of my favourite things about pornography is the range of exquisite outfits being worn. Now, unless we’re talking about porn parodies, then this section is more aimed at girls than guys. Sorry, lads!
The abundance of smut online provides an entire library of inspiration for you to dress like a slut and provide the ultimate porn star experience. If you’re feeling overwhelmed and just want to pull off the classic hardcore porn look, here’s a few items I’d go for.
- A kinky collar or choker.
- Slutty high heels.
- Erotic body stockings.
- Stockings and suspenders without panties.
- Erotic role play outfits.
Of course, this can all be tailored to the desires of you and your lover. If he likes innocent looking girls with a naughty side, dress accordingly. If you aspire to be like the sordid cumsluts you watch in porn, then dress down for the occasion!
If you’re looking for where to buy everything you need for pornstar outfits, then I highly recommend The Stockroom. They have everything from fetish wear to slutty accessories designed by pornstars themselves. You can check them out here.
A conclusion to the pornstar experience
To round things up, the pornstar experience that you see on screen doesn’t have to stay there. Rather than a forbidden vice, you can use it as a training tool to ramp up your lovemaking in the bedroom.
By following the range of advice in this PSE guide, you’ll be able to replicate the filthiest attributes of your favourite porn star with a consenting sex partner and bring a whole new dimension of pleasure to your after-dark antics.
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I’d be delighted to hear your own tips for providing a porn star experience, favourite sex skills to unleash in the bedroom, or things I might have missed from this article. Whatever your thoughts, drop them in a comment below!
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