This MILF Swinger has been in the Lifestyle for 20 Years & Shared her Sexual Wisdom With Us

This MILF Swinger has been in the Lifestyle for 20 Years & Shared her Sexual Wisdom With Us

Recently, the Whoreuro team had the honour of visiting one of the best sexual institutions in the UK: The Paradise Swingers hotel in Blackpool. Since we posted our no holds barred review, many of you were keen to know more.

In particular, there was a lot of interest in one of the hotel owners. A MILF swinger called Sandy. It’s no surprise why. Classy, sophisticated, confident and with looks to kill, Sandy has no problem turning heads of guys and girls alike.

“My squirting record stands at 12 times in an hour which was a lot of fun but certainly left the tank drained and me exhausted!”

For nearly two decades, Sandy has been heavily active in the swinging lifestyle. Alongside her partner, she has been running the Paradise Hotel and a range of other swinging community businesses.

With this much experience in the lifestyle, comes a lot of wisdom. So we sat down with Sandy to ask her some questions and shed some light on this swinging MILF. From kinky confessions to profound swinging advice, here’s what she had to say.

20How did you come up with your swinging name?

I came up with the name Sandy many years ago. It was during the time when Citizens band (CB) radio was illegal in the UK. Sandy Wild was my radio handle and I have continued to use it ever since that time for swinging, adult modelling, and various other things.

19How long have you been swinging for, how and when did you get into it?

Well, to celebrate my 40th birthday we were due to go to Amsterdam with another couple. But the trip got cancelled 3 days before we were due to go and after a hectic online search for something else a bit kinky we found the Paradise Hotel in Blackpool.

Of course, it was run by the previous owners then. We had a crazy weekend of sexy fun and fell in love with swinging after that. So much so that we ended up buying the hotel and still run it as a thriving swingers resort today.

18What was your first swinging experience like?

Ah, I remember it well! It was a threesome that involved me, my husband Steve, and a very sexy barman. That was the first of thousands of naughty sexual encounters.

17What’s your favourite porn genre and pornstar and why?

I suppose I don’t have a favourite genre really. I watch it all. I have met a good number of Adult performers and worked with a few too. As for my favourite Pornstar, it has to be Busty Kim.

I’m very good friends with Kim and her husband John. They have been here (the Paradise Hotel), done that, and got the Busty T-shirt. They are normally here at Paradise 3 or 4 times a year making movies and doing porn shoots throughout the week.

On the weekends they get stuck into swinging and partying alongside our other regulars and newcomers. Both of them are like family to us now. I love them to bits and they are played a big part in me getting involved in the adult scene.

16Are you a spit or swallow kind of girl?

I’m kind of both actually, but it depends on the person I’m with. Mostly I would lap cum up, but occasionally I wouldn’t. I’m a bit of a choosy girl when it comes to Bukkake too.

I love it when men wank all over my tits. I love cum on my face too. But I always make sure I’m wearing my slutty secretary glasses, because if you’ve ever experienced a man’s cum in your eyes you’ll know: It stings like crazy!

15What surprised you most about watching a live porn shoot in Paradise Hotel?

After nearly 20 years in the lifestyle, nothing really surprises or shocks me anymore. But you still pick up a few tips and ideas and there are still a few things that still makes me smile and laugh sometimes.

All the porn shoots that happen here at the hotel are live-action filming. There’s no clapper boards, directors etc. It’s just everyday people fucking for fun and enjoying it. Real films, real people, real action, real orgasms. What more could you want?

14What are you like off-camera and outside of swinging?

Life is so hectic since re-opening after the lockdown that I’ve not had to much time to stop and think. Although I’m quite quiet behind the scenes really. I’ll play games on my tablet or look after my beloved cats.

My husband Steve calls me the “cat lady”. We had 3 litters of kittens during lockdown, which kept us very busy. I absolutely adore cats and currently have 7 with another litter on the way. I normally keep one of each litter but may not with the next lot.

13What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done?

Oh, there’s way too many to pick out. To be honest, they’re all kinky! But one particularly naughty incident remember was having sex on the bonnet of my car in my parent’s driveway years ago.

I’d had a few drinks and forgot all about the CCTV on the house. Whilst my mother was refraining from laughing, my father certainly reminded me that the cameras were still working over breakfast the next morning!.

12What’s the one sexual thing you think everyone should try at least once?

For me, as a woman, it has to be a threesome or even moresomes! It’s a great feeling being at the centre of attention of a group sex session. I did an 8some once but that’s the most I’ve ever tried and it took me a day to recover. Will I do more in the future? maybe!

11Are you a squirter?

Yes, massively! My squirting record stands at 12 times in an hour which was a lot of fun but certainly left the tank drained and me exhausted!

10MILFs and mature women are a really popular kink for many younger men, why do you think that is?

I think they believe the experience of an older woman will help them and teach them new things. I get many offers from virgins and young lads to school them in the act of sex.

9Are you a fan of anal or not?

I was years ago but I then had a boyfriend who was anal mad but he had a 10” cock which, naturally, was pretty uncomfortable. Needless to say, he didn’t last long before I moved on!

8Do you ever get recognized in public? How does it make you feel?

Yes, I normally get recognized when I’m out shopping in Blackpool. But I’ve had a few stalkers so I’m not too comfortable with it, to be honest.

7What’s your most uncommon kink?

Nothing out of the ordinary, really. I know that probably makes me sound common, but I’m just a simple, easy-going swinger girl.

6Have you explored sex scenes in other countries, if so, which was your favourite and why?

Yes, I’ve had sex in many countries, but my favourite is Gran Canaria. The swinging scene in Playa De Ingles is superb and we usually try to go 3 times a year.

5What’s been your funniest / most awkward swinging memory?

Well, there are many. But the funniest happened in the Hotel. There were two couples, one younger and one a bit older, having fun in one of the playrooms. Everything was normal and there was nothing unusual.

Then, at 2 am in the morning a dozen poice turned up at the door of the hotel. Apparently, the female of the younger couple had called them after she considered she had been assaulted with a vibrator by the female of the older couple.

The police were laughing their heads off in the kitchen while I was making them all coffee. Both couples were being interviewed in the bar in separate corners. Apparently, it went to court but I never heard the outcome.

4What are the biggest misconceptions you think people often have about swinging/swingers?

I think the biggest misconception is what non-swingers believe. Things like throwing keys in a bowl and that the swinging scene is all underground and seedy. While in real life swingers are very open & honest people overall. The social side of swinging is very important and it’s not all about sex.

3Which sexual experience/accolade are you most proud of?

When it comes to sexual experiences it has to be group sex. It gives you a real buzz that no drug could replicate and feels incredible. As for being proud? I’m proud of our friends, followers and customers and being a part of the swinging lifestyle.

2What’s your favourite thing other guys have done to make sex fantastic?

All sex is fantastic with the right person, guys try many things in bed. Some of them are good and some not so much! If they try something and I like it, then hats off to them. On the other hand, if I don’t I will tell them to stop. A guy that can make me gush with his cock will always be special to me and not many can actually do it!

1As a veteran MILF swinger, what piece of advice would you give to newcomers to the scene?

My biggest piece of advice would be not to focus too much on sex. I find many new swinging couples and singles have the misconception that as soon as they walk through the door of a swingers club or party, it’s clothes off and straight down to fucking. But it doesn’t work like that in reality.

As a couple, you need to focus on yourselves. Just relax and enjoy each others company first and foremost, talk about your desires and discuss everything, no matter how minor it might be. Overall, being comfortable with yourself will make you comfortable with other couples.

How to see more of Sandy

As well as being an active swinging MILF, Sandy is a popular adult model with thousands of followers and is also active on major swinger sex sites. To see more of Sandy, you can find her here:

  • OnlySwingers – When it comes to arranging swinging meets, Sandy certainly has good taste. She is active on the wellestablished Only Swingers hookup site.
  • The Paradise Hotel – Alongside her husband Steve, Sandy runs the acclaimed Paradise swingers hotel that welcomes singles and couples alike to indulge in some very kinky parties and stay the night.
  • Twitter – Sandy’s Twitter account is heavily active with links to her OnlyFans, upcoming events, and lots of kinky smut from her adult modelling portfolio!

A huge thank you to Sandy the MILF swinger for sitting down and sharing her wisdom with us. She’s been in the lifestyle and the adult scene for twenty years now, and thankfully, shows no sign of quitting!

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